I have to admit that once the kids go to bed at night I really enjoy having time to myself. Invariably though, the quiet never lasts for long as I hear the creak of the floor and the pitter-patter of little feet on the ceiling. There have been too many times I've hollered up the stairs, "Get in your bed!" Not long ago, I decided to stop whatever was so important (dishes, e-mail, laundry, movie watching, etc.) and trudge back up the stairs to address why they were yet again out of their beds after lights out. Tonight was one such occasion, and here is how it went. . .
Pitter-patter, creak, creak. . . up the stairs, I'm barely in the door of their mostly dark room and I hear a little voice softly say, "Hi, Mama." I knelt by his bed and as he lay back on his pillow, he said, "I check Sissa and she is sleeping."
"Why did you need to check Sissa," I asked?
"I need sugars."
"Oh, okay." He swung his little feet to the floor and crept over to her bed. I rested my hand on her in the dark and could feel him reach down with his little hands to find her face. The slightest smack of his lips was all I could hear as he gently gave her sugars on her left cheek before climbing back into his bed.
I leaned over and held him in an easy hug, whispering in his ear how much I love him. "Can I give you sugars, Bubba?"
"Yes."
"Can you go night night now?"
"Yes."
Moments later I am now back at my computer and the house is calm and quiet again. For now they may argue and fight over this toy or that or disagree feverishly about whether or not to watch Dora or Octonauts, but one day I will share this story with his sister and she will know how much he has always loved her. And never again will I pass up an opportunity to share those late night moments with my kids. These days will too soon pass.
This is a sweet story. I'm with you, too many times it's "Go Back to Bed!"
ReplyDeleteI can hear his sweet little voice. Reading this just makes me go "aww"; he has such a big heart for such a little guy. Time will pass, but thankfully that sibling love never will.
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